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Mindset

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I can't do this - "Yaar ye mere bas ka nhi hai " the mindset of every common person. Before even thinking to do a task we are like "I cant do it", that defines how much scared we are from our life . I guess we should keep everything aside and work on our mindset ,because that is the most important thing that decides that we will fail or win . Without even trying we decide that we cant do it . Why ??? Have you experienced it ??? Education is one part , But the most important part is Mindset. Before starting your studies , do we decide "ki mujhe ye nhi krna" . If we have taken Science then we want  to be a engineer or Doctor , Commerce li hai toh CA. Guys think What you are doing is Correct for you ? We have to live our whole life doing the same pressured , not so exciting work . Mindset plays a very crucial role , think but don't let yourself down by saying " ye toh kar nhi paunga" . Mindset is much more important than Education - ...

Mentality

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We people are never thankful to god for everything he has given to us .Its good to ask for more from god ,but before asking , ask yourself is there any need for that thing .Just we see others and want the things that he/she  has but we don't .Think about the necessity of things ,may be the things you just want it for comparison are very much necessary for others .  We cry for the things that  we don't get , we should learn from animals " when two dogs have to eat a rat they fight to achieve it but when they cant they don't cry or start asking god for providing them those things , they wait for the time to come and then again fight to achieve it . But we humans , if we don't get it in first time we have the other way "suicide" the easiest way to pass everything . The people who think like this they don't deserve to live they are "coward" people who cant fight and achieve it .There is time for everything  don't be in a hurry to achieve it...

Alcohol: A social drink or addiction

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I would start with a example "Once a very comfortable and happy person was seating and Devil came to him saying that his time is over so he has to go with him , he also said if you want to stay you have to do one out of these 3 things 1. kill your very loyal servant . 2. start beating your wife . 3. start drinking alcohol. The man said I cant kill my servant and even cant beat my wife . so , ok ill drink alcohol . After drinking alcohol he started beating his wife , servant came to save his wife the man killed the servant " given by Sadhguru. Its never a social drink ,people just drink because it loosens them up ,they can forget their busy and same ongoing life and be happy for that moment . But disastrous are its after effects .Actually to do something we need a very strong purpose to do it . We are not enjoying what we are doing it we cant be happy and we require some materialistic things to keep ourselves happy. If what we are doing we have strong purpose behind , ...

Learnings : Depression Kills

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My previous blog  http://lifeleranings.blogspot.in/2017/08/learnings.html?spref=fb  contains how you should manage your past,present and future,and live a happy life and sharing that happiness with others also. Now, I would like to emphasis on a deadly disease which many people are suffering from that is "DEPRESSION" . People get involved so much into a particular work 90% of times the work gives them tension in which they get struck and the ultimate result is "DEPRESSION". First rule to solve it ,don't ever give so much of importance to the work you are doing ,because no meaning getting so much involved in it as if you don't get up the next morning the work would still get continued ,some other person would take it over . Importance should be given in a balanced amount as it won't disturb you. Depression Explained in beautiful way " suppose you lost half your money tomorrow and you are depressed about it , just hold your nose tight for 2 min ,...

Learnings

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Always thought of life would have been very easy if the future is previously defined and known to us.  We all play in present for securing our future ,that is actually obvious . But the point is that thinking about future ,we spoil our present too. The things what you desire of for future if those things are meant for you no one else will take it from you . As always said life is too small live happily make others also happy ,future will always be very happy and that you desired off . As said by some famous people "be like a candle which burns it self and gives light to others" follow this rule in life and light others life along with yours .Don't think "life like a ice cream , enjoy before it melts . Past is bitter , present is fun and changeable , future is unknown . Don't think about past living in present as you would spoil both the present as well as future . Always be helpful an Light other's life as well . Many don't have the things that you ...